How to Stop Being Hard on Yourself!

Have you beat yourself up so much that you question whether or not there is anything good left in you? Has this energy drain stopped you from doing things you want to do? The world is rough enough as it is, you don’t need to give yourself a hard time on top of it! Here is a reminder from the Angels to be kind to yourself.

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Get People to Promote Your Business

SHE TURNED TRICKS IN TIJUANA. Ginger is her name. She was living on the street, lonely, and shaking from head to toe. Then my uncle rescued her, God bless him for seeing past her mangy appearance. She was rough to look at, but her heart could be seen from a mile away. She came to live with me, got a bath, saw a doctor and got treated for the infection she had acquired while living out there.
She got new clothes and became a Diva. the way she prances around and barks orders with the confidence of a pitbull is astounding. She has a home, a cozy bed, all the entertainment and food she could ever wish for, and most of all she is immensely loved. What you see in her eyes is a sweetness that only a soulmate could recognize. I doubt she could have saved herself, as she was suffering and going downhill fast. What I learned from this chihuahua mix is everybody needs someone to help them reach their full potential.
My friends and close colleagues, Rich and Milana, helped me reach that potential. I needed that next step to get me from part-time to full-time with my business, but I didn’t know where to start. They are the world’s leading authorities on how to grow your business with joint ventures and have just released a new ‘must read’ manual … and you can get it without selling your soul.Whether you are an experienced entrepreneur looking to get to the next level, or if you are just starting out, this book is your guide to building your large list, making the income you desire, and making the difference you want to make.

It’s called “JV MASTERY: How to Get Unlimited Joint Venture Partners to Promote Your Products and Programs … Any Time You Want!” This manual is loaded with hot tips and insider secrets you can implement right away.

So stop turning tricks to get clients and start holding your head up high with confidence and know-how.

Supporting you in Spirit,
“Comfy” Crystal
Angel Sign Language™ Teacher

The Wish: Starbucks and the Magic of the Angels.

This morning I was thinking I wanted Starbucks on my way to work, but I didn’t want to take the time to find one on my way in (not my usual thing to do) and didn’t want to show up to work too late. But as I was getting into my car I kept thinking I deserve to have it. So I figured since I have formed such a great and bonded connection with my guardian angels that I would leave it up to the Universe to provide for me, if it was meant to be.
I got in the car, put on my seatbelt and started the navigation to route my path to work. No, I didn’t need it, because I know how to get to work. I did it because I felt the nudge to do it and had the knowing (claircognizance) that if I did, my route would change to “magically” take me past a Starbucks conveniently placed along my path to work. You cannot imagine my surprise when the damn thing told me to go a different way I would have never gone! Even though I was shocked and in disbelief about the possibility of this actually being an answered thought (thoughts are prayers, you know, even the bad ones) I still followed the path that was displayed before me.
Next time you’re afraid, follow the path anyway… you’re usually answering your own prayers!
P.S. The Skinny Mocha Latte was just what the angels ordered. Yummy!
Supporting you in Spirit,
“Comfy” Crystal , Intuitive Spirit Guide Coach

Talking From the Heart

Love one another and help others to rise to the higher levels, simply by pouring out love. Love is infectious and the greatest healing energy.” –Sai Baba 

I am grateful for the people I have to talk to and bounce stuff off of. If you’re reading this I am incredibly grateful for you.

I was beating myself up for a bit, about my need to talk and resolve things, like maybe I was talking too much and was asking for too much. But last night I had someone do an astrological birth chart reading for me and it really calmed me down. He said he was surprise because he knows me in person, and in classes and when I teach, I am a fiery Aries. But my chart showed a lot of emotional need and the need to talk and have resolution. That, i now know, is my gift and I only keep people in my life that give me feedback about my feelings and their own feelings. It really calmed me down to know that the right people love and respect my need to talk and it allows them to talk in return and feel free and supported.

I have learned the gift of speaking is a wonderful tool for healing, but only for people that are wanting the tool and seeking resolution and change. I could give a million dollars to two different people and one might go out and change the world with it and the other would blow it on crack and hookers and still live on the streets. I think I made my point.

I love my gift of gab. I embrace it and I receive others with it.

The Word of God from a Different Perspective

If you imagine “low” as one end of a string and “high” as the other end, without judging the words as “bad” and “good” then you have a set of different-feeling words. If someone says you’re “pretty” it makes you giddy, your heart sings, you hold your head up high. If someone says you’re “ugly” you feel low, experience negative body reactions (frowning, stomach upset, stress, etc). Those are two different experiences.
If you speak those words of opposition into a computer microphone that tracks the wavelengths of the words spoken you will see the “negative” words have messy, high-peaking valleys, versus rhythmic synchronized valleys and consistent peaks of “positive” words. There is a book about this by Doreen Virtue, Angel Words: Visual Evidence of How Words Can Be Angels in Your Life.
So, it is like the mathematics of the Universe coincides with the way the words make us feel. That makes us a conduit for feeling energy. And the tools we have are the way our bodies and minds react, then, like through coaching, the choices we make when reacting.
Good vibrations,
Comfy Crystal

Manifestation Is a Breeze!

I find so many people are afraid to “bother” God and the angels with things that aren’t worthy to pray for. I am here to tell you that there is nothing you can’t ask for, humongous or tiny, that they don’t desire for you. The missing piece is your free will! God gave you free will, but Angel Law says you must ask the angels for their help. They are only allowed to interfere in cases of life and death. Other than that, game on!
So here’s an example of how this works. I am at a lovely level of instant manifestation. Today I used angel power and thought I should tell you about it. I came home to a desk fan that would turn on, but the motor was stuck in a fine combination of grease and dust bunnies, therefore the blades would not turn. I spent about 20 minutes doing what I think most people do… shove a pencil inside trying to kick-start the blades. I realized I was getting nowhere. Right before I gave up I remembered that I don’t have to settle for less of anything. I have the power to manifest things, we all do.
I closed my eyes, opened my hands towards the fan (totally not necessary but it helps me visual my focus inside my head and it actually does help send the energy to the right place), and took a deep breath. I let go of the idea of the fan not working and I embraced the thought of the blades moving with a smile on my face. I knew in my heart it would work. I shot out focused love and gratitude from my heart and asked my angels to make the fan work. I sent the energy from my heart to the fan like a Care Bear. Remember those? It took about 4 seconds and the fan started turning. I took a second to feel the wind on my face, and then opened my eyes.
Ahhh, it’s so nice to be loved for all eternity.
Your homework: Start asking your angel team for support.
Making stuff happen,
Comfy Crystal

Change is a comin’

I have been seeing a number followed by 55. So, for example: 7:55, 8:55, 9:55, 10:55, 11:55, etc., on the clock the last couple days. The number 5 signifies change. Big changes happening in my life. 55 = This is a period of “out with the old, in with the new.” Welcome these changes as they bring about new blessings.

So just now I got an email from Pizza Hut saying it’s their 55th anniversary and they’re selling pizzas for $5.55. Part synchronized event, part affirmation that change is coming!

FYI, it’s 5:55 right now.

Cha ching,
Comfy Crystal

I am grateful for death and love

My best friend’s grandfather died today, my mother in-law’s doggie, Pearl died this week also, but I received the news today as well. Before walking into work, as I grabbed the door handle I stopped, I heard God speaking. I saw the sun coming up at the top of the tree, then the birds and crickets got louder… the coming together of day and night. I breathed deeply in gratitude for the lessons of love in all its forms.
Then as I sat in my work meeting I noticed myself in the reflection of the glass and noticed by necklace was tucked in. Then I realized that because I didn’t find my crystal necklace this morning I put on my cross. God spoke again. Then as I picked up the Kindle book “Top 5 Regrets of the Dying” to read during my meeting (I can’t help myself, always feeding the Spirit) the woman who was the caretaker of all the dying people received a new client. Her name was Pearl, just like the doggie.
I am grateful for synchronicities, my connection with Spirit, the gift of self-reflection in this cosmic kindergarten of Earth, and knowing that all will always be Ok in all ways. Especially in regards to my Spiritual Life Coaching business. God supports me in supporting others. Thank you for reading and allowing me to share my love with you. Namaste.
Comfy Crystal

To my Grandpa Andy on Memorial Day

My grandpa Andy (my father’s side) has been passed away for a number of years now, almost 20. It wasn’t until this evening that it hit me that I maybe could have gone to see his grave, which is somewhat near my home, on this Memorial Day. I’m not feeling too hot so the thought hadn’t occurred to leave my house until I saw a photo on Facebook of someone at Arlington. I have seen tons of photos like this today so I apparently was off in la la land to not receive the message earlier.

For the last week or two I have been seeing signs again pointing to Elk. In case you missed previous blogs (search “elk”), my grandfather was a member of the Elks Lodge. Whenever he wants me to know he’s around he shows me something to do with elks until I get it. It only took me 2 weeks. Usually this occurs around his birthday, or when he wants to acknowledge something going on in the family.

As I started to open my page to start this blog, I experienced that ultimate nod from my grandpa. Before I typed a single character, the contestant about to sing on the show “The Voice” sang a country song called Grandpa.

So to all who may have been forgotten this Memorial Day, you are most definitely not (especially ’cause you won’t let me forget).

I salute you,
Comfy Crystal

P.S. Lyrics, in case you’re interested…

 By the Judds
Grandpa, tell me ’bout the good old days
Sometimes it feels like this worlds gone crazy
Grandpa, take me back to yesterday
When the line between right and wrong
Didn’t seem so hazy


Did lovers really fall in love to stay
And stand beside each other, come what may
Was a promise really something people kept
Not just something they would say
Did families really bow their heads to pray
Did daddies really never go away
Oh, grandpa, tell me ’bout the good old days

Grandpa, everything is changing fast
We call it progress, but I just don’t know
And grandpa, let’s wander back into the past
And paint me the picture of long ago

Did lovers really fall in love to stay
And stand beside each other come what may
Was a promise really something people kept
Not just something they would say and then forget
Did families really bow their heads to pray
Did daddies really never go away
Oh, grandpa, tell me ’bout the good old days
Oh, grandpa, tell me ’bout the good old days

Ave Maria

I went to donate platelets yesterday afternoon at the Lifestream Blood Bank in Ontario, CA. While I was donating, which takes about 2 hours, I was reading “Mary, Queen of Angels” by Doreen Virtue, a non-denominational book about the blessed Virgin. It seems like every time I pick up the book and read about someone’s encounter with Mary that it is perfect timing for me to learn something about her that means something to me directly. I remember periods of my life where her presence makes perfect sense. Like the times when I’ve smelled the strongest, sweetest smell of roses in places where you should not smell them, where no one but me smelled them.
I came home and went into my meditation room for my practice. Afterward, I felt very connected to Mary and decided to pull a tarot card from the accompanying card deck to the Doreen Virtue book. The card I pulled was “Quiet” and spoke of sitting in silence and asking questions that I wanted answers to. The first few answers seemed to come so rapidly that I decided to ask one that I was sure had no answer. I waited and felt and heard nothing. I realized this was my time to be quiet and wait.
The next morning my husband took off to work and I noticed the silence in the house. He had turned off the satellite radio channel before he left. I turned it back on so I could get dressed and ready for work. The song that was on was ending and the next song came on. It was “Ave Maria”! A Heavenly rendition by Catalin Finch. I cried like a little bitch. I put my hands in prayer and thanked her for listening and being there for me. I was joyful and humbled. It may not have been a definitive answer, but I didn’t need one anymore. All I needed to know was that I am supported and held in the light and that’s all anyone ever needs, if ya think about it.
Full of Grace,
Comfy Crystal